Around 2003, I was infatuated with a young lady, and she had let me into her life: she was abused, and had self-esteem issues. I had given her a significant amount of money to help her out with healthier foods.
Well, time went on, and I lost track of her, and felt a small bit of guilt for not being able to "be there" for her, as far as her request to be romantically involved (physical). She is quite gorgeous, but there was something about her that seemed "off" to me.
Recently, she had found me and friended me on Hi5, and I noticed she had "married" under her relationship status. For most guys, this is bad news, but this made me feel happy. Her pictures of her were with her husband appear to be quite happy. She young lady appears to have married a decent-looking, clean-cut, young man from the Netherlands.
I think I felt genuine concern for her, without any preoccupation with romantic feelings toward the young lady. (Although there is a part of me that still wonders... I think it has more to do with me being kind of lonely.)
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interesting. i'm glad you helped her out, like that, AND you know how she's turned out.
maybe you can continue maintaining contact with her. hm. i imagine the romantic feelings make things awkward, though.
not really:I found that I only kind of liked her body, and that she was mad hawt. A Thai girl with 36 DD? Tell me that doesn't but your sail at least to half mast.
Still, as a human with a heart, I became more concerned with her well-being than her figure and her interest in me. I found I had nothing in common with her, but any other man would probably be lucky to be with her.